tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35638523.post7628562439570926016..comments2023-02-16T21:41:09.917-06:00Comments on My dirty, despicable, horrible affair: So my husband found out about my affair.Healing and Learninghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07637375326828990765noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35638523.post-75438252749347974922020-09-14T00:17:50.243-05:002020-09-14T00:17:50.243-05:00Please understand that many affairs happen because...Please understand that many affairs happen because of the coctail of brain chemicals in the biological hormonal deluge of limerance. Please read about limerance and what happens in the brain when humans fall in love. Then you will understand why you cheated. Throw in the everyday stress of jobs, family duties, and life stress, and this amazing person who sees you as sexy and amazing, and bam. Conversations, flirting, affair. Throw in someone who's sex-hungry, and most regular people give in.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35638523.post-66133809366391817182020-09-14T00:10:42.819-05:002020-09-14T00:10:42.819-05:00I wish I hadn't cheated. During the affair I f...I wish I hadn't cheated. During the affair I felt guilty, but it was only after I got away from the jackass who seduced me that I realized that stupid affair ruined the innocence of my marriage.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35638523.post-69844990731102758172019-09-01T10:44:39.757-05:002019-09-01T10:44:39.757-05:00Your crazy, and easily manipulated, forgive yourse...Your crazy, and easily manipulated, forgive yourself? Like your still the victim, you fucking hurt our daughter so bad and still can’t accept it or do a fucking thing to help her even as she sits in foster care you still cheat and pretend to be the victim, ruthless sociopath Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35638523.post-26284549188924610142017-02-25T04:29:58.511-06:002017-02-25T04:29:58.511-06:00Women who commit adultery a crime worse than murde...Women who commit adultery a crime worse than murder should be burned alive. so that the evil is purged from among humanityAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35638523.post-55110695309428504762015-09-29T15:12:20.464-05:002015-09-29T15:12:20.464-05:00Please don't minimize the impact of an affair ... Please don't minimize the impact of an affair by calling it a "mistake". Those happen inadvertently. This was a conscious choice that was made repeatedly by you and your affair partner. Your ability to share your healing experience with your husband is commendable and I'm grateful for your doing it. However terms like "mistake" dilute the reality of one's behavior while meeting another man for sex or whatever while married to your husband NEVER happens by "mistake". Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35638523.post-46561518149256502662012-04-25T23:11:39.621-05:002012-04-25T23:11:39.621-05:00Be strong- if you can get past these first rough d...Be strong- if you can get past these first rough days, you can do anything. It's possible. Be kind to yourself. We are all human.Healing and Learninghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07637375326828990765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35638523.post-2538271556204524042012-04-24T13:33:20.000-05:002012-04-24T13:33:20.000-05:00Thank you for writing this my husband just found o...Thank you for writing this my husband just found out today, somethings I had done a year ago... and all I wanna do is go kill myself..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35638523.post-63333583784818885212010-12-12T22:27:44.016-06:002010-12-12T22:27:44.016-06:00I hope it helps too. This time you are in now is t...I hope it helps too. This time you are in now is the worst... I promise it gets better and easier every day. Just try to stay strong, you can do it! If you are not already seeing a therapist I highly recommend it. You do need to talk to someone about your feelings to air them, and it helps that it can be a real person. Good luck, and I hope my story helps a bit! I didn't think I could make it either..... but here I am.Healing and Learninghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07637375326828990765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35638523.post-82765202281470009612010-12-11T08:57:19.362-06:002010-12-11T08:57:19.362-06:00I am hoping for help from your blog. I'm goin...I am hoping for help from your blog. I'm going to read it now. I'm fresh from an affair, and going through some withdrawls... and I'm just so sad. I want to make my marriage work, but don't feel I can talk to anyone about my true feelings. Thank you for writing this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35638523.post-12722285354171931962009-07-18T08:35:00.411-05:002009-07-18T08:35:00.411-05:00I dont know if i could ever manage to repair my ma...I dont know if i could ever manage to repair my marriage to its actual condition.. i was cheated by my husband for 3 years simultaneously despite my confrontation he promised he wouldnt do it again but continued, now i found myself comforting in an old friend's love via emails,texts and my husband found out about this affair..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35638523.post-27818465985953987252009-05-28T16:54:11.406-05:002009-05-28T16:54:11.406-05:00Bless you, for doing this...for the gift you're gi...Bless you, for doing this...for the gift you're giving to all of us in this situation...looking desperately, for something to hold on to. I've found it, in your words...it echo's so much of my own pain. Thank you, most sincerely!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com